A Tactic to Avoid Change. The Abusive and Neglectful Woman is very attentive to how she appears to others; especially people in positions of power. She sizes them up and appears how she thinks will best benefit her efforts to gain power over them. She uses a variety of deceptive tactics to appear warm, agreeable and conscientious in public while she hides her true Abusive and Neglectful self from the public.
