When an abuse and neglectful person demands concessions or payments to stop being abusive or neglectful they are hostage taking. They can take hostage their partner or their children. This exists in a system of perverse incentives and moral hazard that empower abusive and neglectful women. Caring and Loving men with children are trapped into relationships with perfidious relationships. They know a biased court systems aids abusive and neglectful women in hostage taking. If the men push the women to improve to much; they run the risk of being able to see their children at all.
