Many people may read this work and see its validity.  They want to apply it to their lives but think they cannot take action.  Their kid are too old.  A woman who used neglectful amounts of non-maternal day care never make that up to them directly. The damage is already done.  You can still make changes. You can admit your short comings and try to pass this knowledge onto your family.  Then take steps to help them to be caring and loving.  You can tell people men are not sexist for only considering caring and loving woman as potential partners.  If your daughters cannot afford to stay at home during their children’s tender years you could see how you can support them.