The American Psychological Association is an existing organization filled with highly educated Abusive and Neglectful women. They lack the emotional intelligence to be good mothers because their thinking is anti-social.  Below is an article published by The American Psychology Association’s Division 35: The Psychology of Women.  You can clearly read that the authors adviser has worked full time and given birth to two children.  The author witnesses this mother struggling with sleep and wonders “why is it just accepted as a reality that mothers must struggle through.”

Existing organizations are filled with women like this. Instead of being an attentive and attached mother this advisor is neglecting her child.  Mommy would rather live the “academic lifestyle”.  The mother is tired because she chose to be.  The author does not suggest her advisor has misplaced goals. She does not recommend she improve her ability to manage bed time. This mother is 100% responsible for her own lack of sleep and being overworked.  She is the one putting her child’s heath at risk because she is living the academic life. Feminist literature is filled with women complaining that neglecting their children is so hard on them, (and not the child).

In the terms of Hammerstein-Equord these existing organizations are filled with Hard-Working and stupid people.  Those are the  worst people you want to have around.  The advisor isn’t “smart” enough to be a stay-at-home mom during her children’s tender years.  Very likely the advisor morally balance her maternal Abuse and Neglect by pointing to the good work she does.  The advisor, her child, and society would be better off if the advisor was smart and lazy.

Politics and Organizational Theory

Maternal Abuse and Neglect does not exist in a vacuum.  These Women, vote sit on juries, staff schools and government agencies, and hold public office.  In all of these capabilities they advance their agenda.  They shape public policy and work to shift the Overton Window away from discussing the root causes of maternal abuse and neglect: women’s individual choices.  These women also shift the Overton window away from effective solutions to abuse and neglect.  The most important solution being unilateral self-improvement of women as wives and mothers.

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Most of the “Gender Responsive” stuff out there is a sham.  It is actually hostile to boy because it is run by ideologically possessed women.  It is also harmful to girls because the same group of women teach girls deeply anti-social values and expectation.  Feminist ideologues reject most of the available truly Gender Responsive research.  It is outside their Overton window so they try to make it outside your Overton window.  The opposition to sex segregated education to help facilitate gender responsive education shows this.  Teaching the research about maternal abuse and neglect is vital.  So is talking about toxic femininity.  We educate boys to recognize female psychopaths and narcissists and we teach girls to do the opposite behavior. 

This point is a specific application of the concept that we cannot look to existing organizations to help us find long term solutions to generational happiness. They focus on social concerns and refuse to see problems as a synergy of the biological and the social. The lack of bona fide gender responsive policy for boy shows the flock has a deep lack of empathy males. This stannds whether the males be their own sons, brothers and other family members. It also propagates cycles of abuse that many women don’t understand because they refuse to see how the acts of women are integral to generational cycles of abuse. In the long run, a lack of gender responsive policies to either sex contributes to future abuse of the other sex.

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Emotional Competencies are the personal and social skills that make people more successful in organizations and relationships so they can have more successful careers.  Guess what?  The family structure is also an organization with relationships and being parent is a lifelong job. Even having someone is divorced being a co-parent is often a lifelong relationship.  The portable skills that were taught to young ladies in Jr. High and High School years ago are the same skills it takes to undertake successful client management for a large account holder in a multinational firm.

The emotional competencies should be taught at a young age with as much focus on being successful in one’s personal relationships as it is being successful in one’s professional relationships.  The education should be gender responsive to teach girls how to be caring and loving wives and mothers.  Likewise, boys to be caring and loving fathers and husbands.  Part of this education is a clear understanding that emotional intelligent people are not selfish, abusive or neglectful. The earlier that people learn these portable skills the happier their lives will be. Also, the happier the lives of everyone who engages with them.

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The research into maternal neglect and abuse is pretty clear and it is understandable at an early age.  It is not hard to understand that children need a certain quality of care from their mothers. Nor is it hard to teach that children need a certain quantity of care. Therefore, it is possible for children to have too much daycare. Higher grades of elementary/primary school can each children to recognize psychopathic or narcissistic values, expectations or behavior in people. This will make avoiding those people so much easier. There is nothing about Trauma Informed Care or the ACES framework that suggest it be taught in college or on the job.

Schools can and should give girls a gender responsive education. This includes training that prepares future mothers to self-evaluate any thoughts or values that are anti-social and prone to neglect. That education trains them to be trauma informed women before they are even capable of having children. Boys likewise should receive a gender-responsive education that values masculinity so they can be good fathers. Few things would do more to improve happiness on a generational bases than dispelling decades of feminist misinformation about motherhood and fatherhood.

Both sexes should likewise learn about emotional intelligence at the same time. There is nothing so complicated about emotional intelligence teachers could not deliver a customized framework to 10- or 12-year-old students.

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There is something about averages outcomes and people that make people “forget” almost everything they have been taught about logic and statistics.  If you point out the average man is taller than the average woman many people can accept that without issue.  Sure, there may be an tall woman that is taller than the average man.   There are plenty of men that is shorter than the average woman.  We know this due to how unempathetic and cruel women are in mocking short men. All this happens without genetic disorders or stunted growth from malnutrition. 

The problems occur when we discuss averages around painful truths.  If we talk about the average adversity someone with a high ACE score has the flock will instinctually look for the outlier.  They want to focus on the highly functional high ACE person.  Also, some people engage in high-risk behaviors and then go on to have ACE 0 kids.  But the average person is not a outlier and not everyone can overcome their risk factors.  You are Superoptimistic to seek out high- risk behaviors and not expect some of the negative effects of them.

A woman with a high-risk history should expect to be treated as high risk.  That means that she is less viable as a future wife and mother than a woman that was prudent.  Failure to understand that very simple conclusion is often combined with some serious grandiose thinking and is a literal sign of psychopathy.

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The Overton Window (aka the Window of Discourse) determines what is acceptable to discuss as policy or law within a society or culture.  What the Overton window covers and what ranges from policy to unthinkable can vary widely over time and culture.  When discussing Maternal Abuse and Neglect there are good and bad actors acting on the range of the Overton window. 

The Flock of Abusive and Neglectful women strive to make sure policy recommendations that empower Abusive and Neglectful women remain policy.  They may pretend that they don’t know the policies they are recommending have a lot perverse incentive when they benefit women, but they definitely do see the “perverse incentive” of giving men the same legal privileges as women.

They do not use open and honest communication to do this.  Rather, they use the basest of rhetoric, lies, deception, logic fallacies and the like.  Aside from the deeply abused and neglected children modern society creates perhaps the saddest casualty of the Overton Window being moved so far to the left is modern women who think they are actually doing a good job.  There are many women that think it is radical or unthinkable that they should be a stay-at-home mother during their child tender years and they are actually doing a good job role modeling independence.

The modern woman with the modern Overton window responds with misguided anger when someone tries to mentor her.  Because she is factually wrong though, that unjustified anger is abusive. 

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There is a concept in substance abuse and relapse called the Seemingly Unimportant Decision (SUDS).  A superficially innocent decision really was the smallest domino in a chain reaction into relapsing into substance abuse.  For us, SUDS are the decisions that start people down the road to abuse and neglect or cause them to relapse into that behavior.  There are a lot small  things that people should be aware of when it comes to abuse and neglect that what most people consider.

People that make a study out of how incentives work in the real world often point out a lot of perverse incentives and moral hazards before they occur. Less prudent people often doubt these insights before history proves them wrong later.  People with an understanding of SUDS and perverse incentives seem like prophets when they predict abuse and corruption.

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There are some things that are foundationally true.  When people learn a Foundational Facts they don’t like they often try and find some way to undermine that fundamental truth as overly simplistic.  They then try and complicate the matter so they can get the understanding they want.  For example, it is fundamentally true that the mother-child bond during the tender years is incredibly important for the child’s outcomes later in life.  When women want to have children but don’t want to be good mothers find out the fundamental truth they say, “It’s not so simple anymore because…..” and they list off a series of excuses like society “progressing”.

Women role models of good motherhood are a fundamental proof that these standards are doable.  They are often proof that good mothers are happier than bad mothers..  That is one of the main fundamental truths that Abusive and Neglectful women want to over-complicate.

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It literally is impossible for a woman to be an Abusive and Neglectful partner and still be a good mother.  The idea that is even possible is mental gymnastics of the worst kind and uses the SuperOptimism thinking error.  If you happen to observe a woman that is Abusive and Neglectful to the men in her live you can assume she is getting away with worse in private. Assuming that women can behave narcissistically or psychopathically with men but not their children borders on insane.

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