The Emotional Intelligence Social Skill sub domain related to nurturing instrumental relationships. The Caring and Loving mother does this for her children by looking for role models and mentors for her children based on their positive self-generated interests as well as other positive influences, just as she looks for role models, mentors and positive influences for herself and her positive interests. She likewise clears obstacles that would be in her husband’s way from connecting with positive mentors and role models. Obviously, with Emotionally intelligent women of the most important bonds she has is with the father of her children.
