A Tactic To avoid Change. The Abusive and Neglectful Woman reveals information when it is useful to her and usually has a secret agenda only she knows about. She makes a habit of being intentionally vague. If pressed on a important question she deflects with “Its personal”, “drop it” or “I can’t deal with this now.” She also deflects when she is caught keeping secrets, saying they were too unimportant to tell. She uses this tactic while she maintains various personas so almost no one knows her true self.
